The Glass Bangle

Being a Woman

The Impossible Bucket List

The memories of childhood have always been a refuge for me in any storm that I faced in life. So many beautiful experiences, all of which have been woven with threads of jewel bright colours and flashes of laughter. A recent conversation made me realize that my Bucket List doesn’t have any bungee jumping or hot air balloon rides in it. Mine would involve going back and experiencing those moments from my childhood again. Those wonderful instances when I felt cherished and the world seemed to be in love with me. Once more I want to relive those tiny parcels of time. Just once more…

  • Once more, I long to inhale the sun-dried fragrance of my Ammumma’s (grandmom) spotless white mundu while snuggling up to her on hot drowsy afternoons.
  • Once more I would love to sit in the shade, while Ammumma spooned out batter for sun-dried ‘vattals’ on to a sheet laid out in the sun. The gummy smell of the batter, ammumma’s conversations and the bright blue of the sky have remained indelibly linked with the pleasures of childhood in my mind.
  • Once more I crave the exhilaration that came from being on a swing, which my cousin brothers used to push so high that I felt like I was flying into the sky.
  • Once more I just want to go back to the old kirana shop near my house and deeply inhale the heady scents of spices, masalas, gunny sacks and agarbattis. I was totally in awe of the owner, who sat perched behind huge sacks of rice and glass bottles which contained sweets and peanut candy. I thought he had the most interesting job in the world, a keeper of a treasure trove.
  • Once more I’d love to lie down on the terrace of my house, looking up at the night sky and dreaming on the stars, while the comforting smell of dinner being prepared wafted up on the air.
  • Once more I wish I could dig into hot fragrant samosas in a gali in Delhi with my only worry being unfinished homework.
  • Once more I feel like reading a novel in class, hidden under my textbook, with the drone of the teacher providing a soporific background score
  • Once more I would love to watch the moon following our car as if it wanted to see us home safe. The quiet murmur of my parents’ voices from the front seats soothed me while the moon comforted me.
  • Once more, I want to sit in my tuition class, staring blankly at the teacher and thinking longingly of the Sunday breakfast which awaited me – hot fluffy appams and fragrant chicken stew.
  • Once more I want to jostle for space with my cousins while getting ready for bed at my uncle’s house, where all of us used to land up for vacations. We had to sleep in the huge hall and since pillows were scarce, we would wait for somebody to fall asleep in order to appropriate their pillow. The jokes and banter, and the sense of belonging we used to get there gives a silken feel to my memories of those days
  • Once more I’d like to go foraging for midnight snacks in my uncle’s house along with my cousin sister, after marathon chat sessions. The memory of waking up my poor aunt from a deep sleep just to find out the location of the halwa still brings a smile to my face. The most beautiful part of this memory is how unperturbed my aunt was to see two apparitions quizzing her about food in the dead of night.
  • Once more I crave the hot coffee that amma would make for me while I sat up at night to study. The dollops of love in it might have been the reason it smelled and tasted so divine. Many a time, that has been the only reason that made me stay awake  🙂
  • Once more I wish to endure the agony of the last day of exams in school, just to experience the ecstasy of giving back the answer paper and rushing out of class, while soaking in the blissful feeling that the holidays had started.
  • Once more I’d like to curl up by the window in my room, watching the rains caress the glossy leaves while I wove dreams about the future.
  • Once more I want to feel the satisfaction of having played a great game while sweatily standing around with friends and gulping in huge lungfuls of air, after we played basketball.
  • Once more I’d like to see the twinkle in my Appuppan’s (grandfather) eyes as he regaled us with stories of two children who at that time I thought were gluttons, but now seem more like passionate foodies !
  • Once more I wish to overdose on Bollywood and home cooked food while chilling out at a friend’s house, supposedly for combined study sessions !
  • Once more I yearn to sit with my Achan on our verandah, exchanging comments on the news while we drank our morning coffee and read the newspaper, or watched the evening sun gild the leaves a mellow gold, sharing a comfortable silence, lost in our own thoughts. Just being with him was the best feeling.

 

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30 comments on “The Impossible Bucket List

  1. dreamingthruthetwilight
    October 3, 2015

    Got here from a link posted on Ajit Menon’s page. Beautiful memories and a very beautiful way of expressing them. 🙂

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    • The Glass Bangle
      October 5, 2015

      Thank you so much Nadira ! I visited your blog just now, and it was such a pleasure to read your thoughts. I hope I’ll see more of you here. Anyway I’ll keep dropping in to your blog 🙂

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  2. Mohua
    September 18, 2015

    Hi, reading you bucket list was such a delight. Just wanted to share – for years I have been making a bucket list of special memories of my childhood, lest I forget them as I age. Would love to hand them over to my children some time in the future. To add on to the list I have asked my younger brother to jot his memories too. I completely agree with you. These beautiful memories keep us alive. Brings a smile on our face when we am down. – Mohua

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    • The Glass Bangle
      September 19, 2015

      Mohua, how wonderful that we both thought along the same lines ! J.B Yeats has so correctly said that “God gave us memories so that we can have roses in December.” Happy memories are such a comfort no matter what age we are or which part of the globe we are in. I’m so happy to see you here 🙂

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  3. Navin Mathew
    September 7, 2015

    HAHAHAHA.. Nice.. I’m definitely thinking of ‘stealing’ some of your ideas now. http://myrootsmywings.blogspot.in/p/my-bucket-list.html

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  4. Ami (Yearful of Sundays)
    September 6, 2015

    What an absolutely, heartwarmingly wonderful read for a Sunday morning. Took me right back to my own childhood and left me both nostalgic as well as thankful for some memories that are as vivid today as ever. Thank you, thank you for this post. ❤

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    • The Glass Bangle
      September 6, 2015

      Thank you Ami ! It feels so wonderful to lead others down memory lane 🙂

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  5. peakperspective
    September 4, 2015

    This was wonderfully moving. A lovely piece of writing!

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    • The Glass Bangle
      September 6, 2015

      Shelley, thank you. Each of these memories have played a part in making me what I am today

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  6. rima sen
    September 3, 2015

    You write so beautifully and your words took me back in time…delightful read!

    Liked by 1 person

  7. missbookthief
    September 3, 2015

    I’m feelin’ a little nostalgic here. Beautifully written. 🙂

    Liked by 1 person

  8. Ram Kumar
    September 3, 2015

    Very Beautifully written. Made me revisit my childhood 🙂

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  9. dreamzandclouds
    September 3, 2015

    This is a beautiful bucket-list; nothing can match the simple joys of childhood 🙂 I could relate to many of them 😀

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  10. Shailaja/ The Moving Quill
    September 3, 2015

    How beautifully and visually you’ve captured all those lovely memories. You’ve awoken a whole lot of nostalgia now. Sigh.

    Liked by 1 person

    • The Glass Bangle
      September 3, 2015

      Thank you so much Shailaja. I took a long time to complete this post since I kept going off track into all those memories 🙂

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  11. malvikajaswal
    September 3, 2015

    Once again indeed:)

    Liked by 1 person

  12. Varnam Gump
    September 3, 2015

    Once more let us cherish the childhood memories which never fail to bring a smile.

    Liked by 1 person

  13. Rajeev
    September 3, 2015

    you write so beautifully Anju. so touching evoked memories of our childhood.

    Liked by 1 person

  14. Sid Balachandran
    September 3, 2015

    If only we could turn back time. Once more 🙂
    Lovely post, as usual!

    Liked by 1 person

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